It’s The Best Time to Turn Up the Temperature on with Astounding Edgeplay

Many people have heard of the term “Edgeplay.” It likely came up while reading a BDSM guide or discussing D/s with a friend. This word is like many kink words are charged with taboo energy. That stuff on edge should be left alone, right? The problem is, that’s what makes it so much fun!

In that case, let’s say you have a good understanding of what Edgeplay entails, but you are unsure where to begin. For all the adrenaline addicts, this one’s for you. If you are the type of person who gets bored of the familiar routines and looking for something new, then the exciting Edgeplay is for you!

Who Is Suitable for Edgeplay?

Please be aware that this is not suitable for the faint-hearted. Edgeplay can be a perfect combination of spice and danger in sex. This combo will bring you and your partner closer and step up your level of sexual intensity in a naughty, mischievous manner. How does it work? Edgeplay will get you as close to the bottom of the mind as possible, allowing you to experience things that few people are willing to see.

Edgeplay means taking a sexual encounter to the very edge of your psychological limits, an intense and erotic walk to the dark side.

Edges play Includes Three Primary Elements

Even those who know each other well can find something new in edgeplay. While you may believe you know everything about your partner, their personality may take a sudden turn once you have a knife at their throat and they are begging for mercy. For better or worse, when you peel away all the social layers, you will see a new side of your partner and yourself. This kind of play can help to increase your trust and intimacy because it allows each of you to uncover and share your darkest parts.

First Element 

The first takes the form of a sexual role-play that incorporates violence, either physical or psychological. This part is also known as BDSM (“Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, and Sado-Masochism”). Role-playing behavior can vary depending on who is playing, since to one person, something could be exciting, while for another, it might be plain and boring. However, certain fundamentals apply to all of these activities, including:

  • Rough play
  • Smacking
  • Punching
  • Erotic Asphyxiation
  • Fire Play
  • Gunplay
  • Blood play (drawing and/or drinking blood)

Second Element

The second element is to use sharp objects, such as knives, swords, or other cutting instruments to engage in this kind of Edgeplay. The goal isn’t to maim but it’s using sharp objects as a sensory tool. There are many techniques to take part in knife play while staying safe.

Third Element 

The third element is for boundary pushing which is unique to each person. You might know that someone has a fear of not being able to move. Edging might include making them believe they’ve been tied up. In impact play it could mean spanking them till they are are at the “edge” of screaming the safe word. Edges greatly depend on what you and your partner think are willing to try. The goal again isn’t to traumatize, it’s to get someone close to their limit.

Physical Benefits 

There are physical benefits to practicing Edgeplay as well. The thrill and fear associated with such play release both norepinephrine and adrenaline during the gameplay and endorphins. Stress relievers and anti-depressants are on this list. When fears and excitement subside, the body releases large amounts of serotonin, dopamine, and vasopressin, creating a good feeling.

A Last Bit of Advice

Couples in long-term relationships are constantly trying to convince themselves that things are still exciting in bed. Edgeplay can help to bring these feelings back! It prevents things from getting stale.

It is time to do your research if this piques your curiosity. Those with no experience should go to a workshop, look at instructional guides, and watch videos.

Before practicing this play, you should talk about this with your partner:

  • Talk extensively about your intentions and fantasies
  • Be methodical in your approach
  • Calm yourself

Balancing the darkness and light, fun and fear for you and your partner, is an art. Edgeplay should be affirming and enjoyable for everyone, BDSM is all about freedom.

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How to Enhance Sexual Ecstasy With a Golden Shower?

Ever wondered if you would get turned on by a Golden Shower or not? Ready to experiment with your partner’s pee fetish? Then try it!

Different individuals are sexually excited by different types of things, and one good example of this is Urophilia, also known as Golden showers, Water Sports, or Piss Play.

As collectively more people become interested in exploring unconventional sex,  they are more likely to try out creative sexual practices, such as BDSM, which is becoming more common. If you are on the brink of opening up to Piss play,  this article will help you understand what a Golden Shower is and why it’s a must for some kinksters.

What is Golden Shower?

Golden Shower or Urolagnia is an act where a person sprinkles another person with urine for sexual arousal. Some partners see this act as a way to play with degradation, while others see it as deepening intimacy – and even others see it as both!

You may be surprised to know that Urolagnia is the 9th most popular sexual fetish in the United Kingdom! Because of this, there’s a new term for individuals who enjoy Golden Showers — Water Sports.

Have A Sexual Fetish For Urine?

People eat to drink urine or bathe in it. If you have a urine fetish, then even bedwetting might be something you’d enjoy. People with this kind of fetish say that warm, fragrant urine provides sexual pleasure.

You can also perform a Golden Shower when you are literally showering with your partner.   In D/s relationships, a Golden Shower can be used to humiliate the submissive partner, which increases arousal for both parties.

Piss Play Requires Consent

Piss play is sexy because BDSM allows for what is typically dirty, and wrong to be a great sexual release with which both parties can safely and consensually explore the raunchier side of sex.

As with all BDSM, practicing water play should be done consensually and without coercion. Remember, Safe, Sane and Consensual!

Arousal and Wetness Goes Together

In the urine play, sexual arousal results from playing with urine. Many couples get arousal by the feeling of wetness caused by urine when they engage in urine play, in addition to the warmth and smell.

The sound of urinating and urine temperature gives excitement to some individuals. Urine can also serve as a “feel good” substance because of the sensation you feel when releasing it from the body.

There Are No Hazardous Or Unsanitary Issues

On the contrary, this kink is not particularly dangerous or unsanitary. As urine is typically sterile, and most people have exposure to urine-borne bacteria, it is unlikely that someone with this water sports fetish will contract bacteria after drinking urine from someone.

Want to Explore More?

Although Golden Shower for many people is unusual, it is a delightful sexual variation for others.. If you are looking for others into Piss Play, check out to meet local kinksters like you!

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