Boosting Body Confidence Through Kink

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The thing about body issues is that everyone has them, female, male, LGTBQ, thin, thick, and you and me. While kink is not for everyone, it can be a great way to help you change the way you perceive your body. Let’s take a look at how you can improve your body confidence through kink.

We all struggle with body image concerns at some point in our lives, whether we are skinny, short, overweight, tall, or somewhere in between. Accepting oneself allows us to experience a level of delight that was before obscured by guilt and shame. This is not confined to our sexual discovery, it may apply to all aspects of our lives.

Poor Body Image

Body image is a topic that is rarely discussed, even though so many individuals deal with it. Are you afraid to strip naked during sex because you don’t like an aspect of yourself? Do you hold back during sex because you are worried about how you look during sex rather than finding sensuality and pleasure in your play?

It appears that a generation of us grew up with body loathing. Believing that we were flawed and unattractive no matter what we looked like. Too thin, too fat, too busty, too flat, too tall, too short, wide hips, too much ass, or simply insufficient.

A never-ending litany of what is wrong with us is physically reinforced by images on television, in movies, and in print that we could never hope to live up to. We grew up believing that how we appear is the most essential aspect of ourselves and that it was never good enough.

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Kinksters See You Differently

With so many kinks and fetishes to choose from, almost everything may be deemed hot and desirable – even your flabby arms and thick thighs, scarred physique, or simply lacy lingerie. Age is also irrelevant. Every age group is gorgeous and can enjoy kink. We urge adolescents to ignore the media’s message that they must be anorexic to be beautiful. Yet, we don’t follow that advice ourselves. You are not a member of the media. You are not the posed photographs and limited definitions of beauty. You’re gorgeous because you don’t conform to the trends.

A scene provides something special that the vanilla world does not. While we come from many areas of life, BDSMers have a penchant for the unconventional. They are enthralled by the passion, the power exchange, and the enchantment of sexual self-expression. This mindset leads to a more accepting attitude regarding age, gender, race, size, and orientation.

The kink and fetish world can help you gain self-esteem because it is a body-positive culture. Participating in large-scale sexual markets and fetish festivals demonstrates that people of all shapes and sizes can be themselves. It is a genuine eye-opener for some.

When we acknowledge our kinky side and achieve self-acceptance, we gain the ability to be cognizant of our decisions rather than allowing that side to slip out in unexpected ways. We can express ourselves without fear of being judged, have better sex, and have more! fun

See Yourself Through Someone Elses Eyes

Kink was once stigmatized as something that harmed people who indulged. It was often regarded as a bizarre form of sexuality. However, BDSM culture encompasses a wide range of people, from those who enjoy being bound during sex to those who have a specific kink, such as a latex fetish. Enough research has been completed and the shame-based thinking surrounding sexuality is beginning to fade. It is clear that BDSM may be beneficial to your psychological health and self-image, and even qualifies as a kind of self-care.

There is usually some excitement involved when you engage in a BDSM scene. This is because BDSM always includes some type of power exchange, implying that one person is in command of the other. Of course, safewords and permission are critical to ensuring that the person relinquishing control stays within the sexual limits they’ve established. However, the power exchange can heighten your senses and cause you to be fully present at the moment—far more than regular intercourse.

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Consider having sex while blindfolded. Your senses are heightened, so you’re paying attention to your companion. The sensation of touch is electric because it’s unexpected. It’s the polar opposite of mentally going over your to-do list during sex. Using BDSM is an excellent way to gain mindfulness and self-care during sexual interactions.

Kink can be transforming for those who are uncomfortable, have unusual abilities, or have physical features that do not suit our culture’s overly restrictive concept of sexy. The emphasis on endurance and intellectual sexiness helps, but BDSM has a sizable number of adherents who never engage in regular vanilla sex. For persons who have a condition like erectile dysfunction and need to find new ways to explore sensually, the wider notion of sexual enjoyment is helpful. The capacity to provide sexual pleasure to others in novel ways might provide you with the confidence boost you need to be your most completely expressed sexual self.

When we acknowledge our kinky side and achieve self-acceptance, we gain the ability to be cognizant of our decisions rather than allowing that side to slip out in unexpected ways. As a result, we may express ourselves without fear of being judged, have better sex, and have more fun!

Own Who You Are

When you are confident in yourself, you are the sexiest person you can be. That self-assurance elevates you above the porn stars and fashion models on TV and in magazines. People will be drawn to you if you offer your best self to them. You will be wanted, and every glance, smile, and welcome you give is worthwhile. Wear black or lingerie if you don’t have fetish clothing. If you’re new and don’t know how to do something, ask for help. Learn about the people around you.

Enjoy sex with your partner and experiment with new things. Purchase sexy clothing and wear it at home or out. Remember that you do not need to change yourself to participate. Simply be yourself, and have a fun time doing it!

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When you are confident in yourself, you are the sexiest person you can be.

Accepting ourselves is heavenly in and of itself; owning who we are is wonderful. So, try not to be too hard on yourself. Instead, be open to how you feel as a result of what you read, discuss, and later observe or participate in. Accepting oneself allows us to experience a level of sexuality that was before obscured by guilt and shame. This is not confined to our sexual discovery but can apply to other aspects of our lives.

Come Away with Self Love

Believing in yourself is the key to boosting your confidence; kink gives you an outlet to be more comfortable in your skin. Sexually interact with people who see you for who you are, and get rid of your negative body image. Kink can help you boost your confidence, and when you love yourself, loving your body will follow!

If you’re looking to be more confident in your sex play or looking to read about more self-positivity, head over to foxtail and check out the blogs and more.

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