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While there are many different forms of bondage, Rope Bondage or more commonly known as Rope Play is an act that involves rope as a means of connection, intimacy, and pleasure. One person, the top, binds another, the bottom, with a rope. The rope is a valuable tool that encourages people to engage in play, communication exploration, and incorporating new, emotionally and physically stimulating experiences into their relationships or sex lives.

Rope Play is the Middle Ground

Rope Play

BDSM is an effective umbrella term that encompasses the various concepts of bondage, discipline, domination, and submission, as well as sadism and masochism. Also known as kink, this wide-ranging group of sexual activities includes some tried-and-true favorites like spanking or adrenaline seeking activities like fire or knife play. Rope Bondage is somewhere in-between all of these modalities. Makes you wonder should you try it, right?

Why Do People use Rope Play?

To use ropes during sex is to assert power and control. A person in charge of a relationship will immensely enjoy physically restraining their partner and doing as they please. Rope play can also be used outside the bedroom between non-sexual play partners. Even without having sex, it still provides a dynamic to experience trust, safety, sensuality and fun. The bottom gets to surrender to being tied and the top gets to assert their control either sensually, sadistically, or however fits their style.

Rope Bondage gives you the feeling of restraint, and loss of control will elevate your pleasure if you happen to be the rope bottom. For the top it offers a sense of power, control, creativity and even problem solving. The contemporary BDSM community knows the origin of rope tying to be from the Japanese shibari bondage art form. Western approaches rope as a tool to enhance control and restriction, whereas the Japanese style is all about bringing out the artistry in rope tying.

Things You Should Know Before Getting Started With Rope Bondage:

Shibari Rope Tips
  • The price. We can’t deny that often times in kink in order to play, explore and indulge you need a lot of instruments and props which requires disposable income. Rope alternatively is relatively cheap. You can find great quality rope that also looks beautiful in our Shop.
  • The rope’s diameter is critical. To avoid the risk of a minor injury such as skin burns, circulation problems, bruises, or scars while in Rope Play, you should only use ropes that have a diameter of no less than a quarter inch. For this post, we’ll define a small diameter as anything less than 5mm.
  • The tooth (i.e., the teeth of a rope) refers to the friction that results from your knots; this means that your knots will be better if your string has a smooth tooth.
  • Maintenance is a requirement for every tool, as ropes are too. To keep it in good condition, wash it whenever you can and store it in a bag or case. If the cord gets too stiff, give it a trim and break it down in the water before using it.
  • Tying up loose ends helps make it more visually appealing and keeps your bottom safe from becoming dangerously tangled.

Types of Bondage Rope

Model tied up
BDSM/rope bondage

There are many types of bondage ropes, but mostly they are separated into two categories – Natural and Synthetic. Both sorts have their advantages and drawbacks and it all comes down to your personal preference.

Natural ropes like hemp tend to be scratchier and stiffer, perfect for the bottom who wants to feel more discomfort and the top that wants to inflict some pain. Cotton rope on the other hand is also a natural material but is very soft to work with. Synthetic nylon rope is also very soft and sensual for both the top and the bottom, getting things steamy while playing. Cotton and nylon are easily washable which is very important if you’re going to get any liquids, foods or other playful substances on your rope bottom.

Ropes + Toys

Want even more fun? You can use a rope with a magic wand vibrator for mind blowing orgasms! Tie a knot around yourself in the form of a harness and slip this bad boy in for a mind-blowing sexual experience. Rope Bondage is fun and can even be done solo, experiment and try it! For thrilling experience of wand vibrators, visit Foxxxy to grab one for yourself.

Beginners Guide to Bondage knots

Bondage knots

There is not much I can write that will make you understand the intricacies involved in BDSM bondage without getting complicated. Luckily, you can find many videos with tutorials for beginners and advanced users on the Web. Stay tuned for our upcoming Kink Tutorials, coming soon!

Extra Ideas to Make Your Rope Play More Intense

This is a must-read, the above is all about techniques, and this part is just about fun.

Restraint to items (chair, bed etc)

Restrained to a chair
Restrained to a chair

Try to mix things up in Rope Play by restraining your partner to a chair, bed, a sturdy pole, or anything that catches your attention and has the ability to hold a rope. But keep in mind that safety is first.

The suspension

Suspension bondage
Suspension Bondage

For suspension, you will need some extra equipment (hooks, or poles with rings hanging from the ceiling) but it can be a lot of fun when done properly. Not everything has to be played out in bed! In order to safely suspend one should be practicing rope bondage for some time and know about the areas on the body to avoid when tying, as certain points cut off blood flow and can be dangerous to restrict.

Erotic Effects of Rope Bondage

These ropes help to caress or tickle while you tie or untie them, especially the more sensitive body areas. From ecstasy to pain, it can cover the whole spectrum of your sense. It is possible to scratch and tickle someone with frayed rope ends, or seduce them with the rope’s soft glide. Rope can also serve as an excellent makeshift whip.

Vibration on The Rope Can Cause Stimulation

With Rope Bondage it’s possible to have direct clitoral, perineal, and anal stimulation if the knots are properly tied near those areas. Either simple pressure or movement is required to make this happen. You can add your input by gently twisting, pulling, or tapping on the ropes. It is possible to enhance the feeling using a vibrator on ropes or knots. The surprise is that using a vibrator in seemingly innocuous places can dramatically affect the string’s effectiveness in transmitting vibration.

The Practice of Meditation and Relaxation

Couple meditation
Couple meditation

Meditative is an excellent way to describe the experience of rope bondage. The top enters a meditative state as they are completely present with typing properly and executing their vision. The rope bottom on the other hand enters into subspace while surrendering to being tied. The sensation of the ropes binding their body puts them in a relaxed and trance like state.

The Bottom Line

Many of us have an unusual experience when we are unable to move. It is a unique feeling. There are instances when a submissive might appear euphoric or unusually relaxed after a session. This is known as a “rope stoned” or “sub-spaced” feeling. Bondage often helps to de-stress and relax. You can acquire many benefits from bondage no matter if you’re a seasoned top or brand new bottom.

Meet kinksters like you who love rope bondage in our sex positive community here. Want to read more? Visit our blog and you can shop an amazing collection of shibari ropes at Foxxxy.

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